Ask An Asexual

beaft:

beaft:

controversial post maybe but i think if you don’t need a psychiatric evaluation to get breast implants then you shouldn’t need one to get top surgery

this is kind of an unrelated rant but i do also think western society has a weird fixation on Breasts™️ like ive heard countless stories of people trying to get breast reductions and the drs refusing to do it or purposefully doing it wrong (ie taking them down to a c-cup when they wanted to be an a-cup) people were legit angry/upset when angelina jolie got her mastectomy as if she’d personally wronged them there is literally a breast cancer foundation called “save the tatas” as though a woman losing her tits is more important than a woman losing her life. making your breasts bigger is fine but making them smaller or (shock horror!) getting rid of them is considered deeply strange. and i think that’s why top surgery is viewed as some kind of hideous irrevocable mutilation by so many people, because they have this bizarre need to treat an ordinary body part that approx. 50% of the population has as either public property or a symbol of Divine Womanhood or whatever the fuck. it’s so stupid i hate it

lesbianb:

i hope older lgbt people are having a nice day, i hope they’re safe and feeling loved and i hope they’re being supported… i feel so grateful to them, and i want to help them like they’ve helped me

deafmic:

gender became a lot more fun once i realized that nothing has to be connected to one gender or another if i don’t want it to be. you can use whatever pronouns you want no matter how you identify. you can use any name you want. you can wear whatever clothes you want. you can buy gender affirming things (binders, breast forms, packers, etc) without having to be in one category or another. i feel like i only really realized what “gender is a social construct” meant once i figured that out.

funnytwittertweets:

sistervirtue:

Transmasc rapper like they call me isaac the way im binding

gardeninthevoid:

gardeninthevoid:

🏳️‍🌈 remember 🇷🇺

while americans and europeans celebrate Pride, remember us. remember that pride is illegal in Russia. remember that we are silenced and shamed by our government and by the society we exist in, that our human rights get violated every day. remember that russians carrying rainbow flags will be beaten and thrown in jail this summer. celebrate and protest, but remember that we can’t.

i now regret not making this post explicitly trans inclusive because a lot of terfs are using it to forward their agenda. anyway, as another pride month is upon us, reminder that this is still happening in russia and that trans people are most at risk. your ‘activism’ means nothing and your support is not wanted until you include trans and nonbinary people in it. transphobes can go fucking rot.

comfychairs:

jumex:

Asexuals feeling oppressed cuz they don’t wanna fuck …will forever be funny I’m sorry . Put me on the list

Aces are valid. Aros are valid. Stfu and good night.

pukicho:

aphuckingbeesechurger:

pukicho:

You flirt and kiss and for what??? Sex?????! Love?????? Pathetic.

To level my charisma stat

Ah a gamer, you may pass